It’s hard trying to explain something to someone without making it sound like you’re self-centered or having a pity party. Everyone is so quick to say “get out of your feelings” or “you’re too sensitive.” Or somehow they make your problems about them and it becomes this contest about who has it worst. It’s exhausting. And the crazy part is that I always hold back my feelings and people will still act this way. I don’t need everything to be about me, it’s just that nothing is ever about me. How is it so hard to realize that the strongest people usually need someone to lean on more than anyone else?
I guess you can’t blame people for being so oblivious at times. It’s not that everyone is against you, they’re just for themselves. But I wish we could at least take a little time to understand what others need us to understand the most.
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